Meika Scott-Brown
Chapter 5: 179-192
In Chapter five, Tong examines how woman's place as the "other" has
subordinated her role in society. She uses Sartre's definitions
of "being-in-itself" and "being-for-itself" to describe interactions
with ourselves and others. Being-in itself is the material,
bodily form we each take as humans and animals. Being-for-itself
is the human consciousness and its obligation to make choices.
With the existence of a self, there comes naturally an "other".
In our Western society, women have taken the role of the
"other".
Drawing from the work of Simone de Beauvior, the meat of this chapter
explores how women may have become the "other" that is constructed to
be inferior to men. Tong also proposes various ways in which
women can escape this construction and rediscover their authentic
selves (188).
The beginning assertion is that man maintains his freedom by
subordinating women. Unlike conflicts of race and class, Beauvoir
argues, women have always been subordinate to men. They
themselves have internalized this role and reinforced a system of
oppression. Although she acknowledges some of their validity,
Beauvoir ultimately rejects biological, socialist and Freudian
explanations for women's inequality. The idea that women are
subordinate because they carry babies, do not control the means of
production, or do not have a penis simply do not suffice (180).
She asserts that social roles ascribed by the subject (man), are at the
root of women's otherness. This socialization carries on past
puberty to wife and motherhood, where she is in the service of others
and restricted from developing her own self.
In her conclusion, Tong proposes that woman gain her power by embracing
her ability to create herself by becoming workers, intellectuals and
socialist proponents.